Having a daughter can be a wonderful experience, watching her grow from an adorable little girl to a beautiful young woman is a journey that words cannot even describe. However, there can be some major complications in getting “daddy’s little girl” the help she needs, should she develop a dependency upon narcotics or opiates of any kind.
The first step to addressing and dealing with a problem such as this is to approach it with caution and concern.
It does not help anyone out if you try to deal with this issue without knowing all of the facts first. Should you discover any sort of evidence that she is taking illegal drugs or even prescription medication that could be harmful, you should approach her as a friend first, making sure she knows that she has the support she needs from her loved ones, so she does not feel like she has to resort to the ingestion of drugs to feel like she has a greater worth or value. Also, you should, from a very young age, be sure that she knows she is able to confide in you about any of her problems, as this will allow her to be more open with you as she starts to develop into a young woman, and encounters problems of her own that she does not feel comfortable talking to just anyone about.
Second, it is always good to give her an ultimatum before you make any rash decisions about getting law enforcement or any higher authority involved.
Make sure she knows that you are there to help, and that all you want to see is her recovering from the dangerous life that a drug addict entails. She needs to think of you as a helping hand instead of someone who is there only to make her trip up and fall.
Third, you need to be firm and yet forgiving at the same time.
She needs to know that you are not going to let her get away with all of the poor choices she makes, but she also needs to believe that she is able to earn your forgiveness because of the redemptive relationship that exists between a child and a parent. A child that does not believe they are going to get in trouble with his or her parents is more likely to experiment with illegal drugs, but that does not mean that you need to be over protective because that will drive her to the other end of the spectrum.
When confronting your daughter at your suspicions that she may be experimenting with illegal drugs, it is incredibly important to maintain peace when it is brought up. A woman’s emotions are a very fragile and delicate balance, and often what she needs from you is only affirmation that you are proud of her, you love her, and all you want to do is ensure that she has a bright future away from the grasp of dangerous dependencies on illegal substances that she may encounter.
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