Finding out that someone we love is suffering with an addiction to crack can be devastating. We would love to be able to demand that the person stop using crack and that they would heed our words and stop on the spot, but unfortunately that isn’t realistic. Crack addiction, or an addiction of any type is complex and most often requires help from professionals.
We can’t fix or force the crack addict to stop using crack, but what we can do is try to help them see their addiction and the impact that it is having on their life and the lives of those who love them. Because drug addicts are in a very vulnerable place in their li
ves, it’s important to be careful how you approach them. In many cases, if the addict feels as though they are being attacked it will only cause them to distance themselves even more and possibly spin even further downward in their cycle of abuse. It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t confront them with their addiction, but it should be done in a place of love, and not anger and accusation.
More likely than not, the addict has lied at some point or another about their addiction or done things to keep you and other loved ones from finding out their dirty little secret. After all, they don’t like being an addict, but they have found themselves in a place where the drug has control over their life and are more than likely unsure how to stop.
When you confront the addict, explain to them how much they mean to you and that you love them, and also explain to them what the crack is doing to their lives. Try not to be accusatory, but instead explain to them that you really want them to get help because you know they don’t want to be addicted to drugs and have it control their life. Explain that you are there for them and you want to help them get help with their addiction so that they can be free of drugs.
Before hand, research reputable treatment facilities that offer inpatient care so that if your family member is willing to get help, you can get them checked in immediately before they have the opportunity to change their mind. By offering solutions to help them with the addiction, you are offering the addict hope of recovery and a chance to finally break free of the hold that cracks has on their life.
Nick Hayes is a graduate of the Narconon drug rehab program in 2005. Nick takes much enjoyment in writing, and feels there needs to be more information about drugs and alcohol provided to the people of the world. He believes nobody should have to go through an addiction.